
The adolescent brain is starved for meaningful touch, meaningful interaction, meaningful bonds, meaningful challenges, a meaningful touch.
This morning a pastor posted a question about starting confirmation this fall in a new unfinished space. She was wondering if she should get rid of the tables/chairs and put bean bags on the floor to change the class mentality. Here's what I posted:
If I may be so bold, here's my 2 cents: Forget the bean bags. And forget the word "class". Sit on the floor twice a month and invest the other two weeks a month in small groups doing service and fellowship on the theme. When you're together, have some theme related music, then some theme related games, then a big circle holding hands or locking arms for opening prayer. Then have: 1. Someone share a faith story on the theme, 2. Someone share a visual image/prop/analogy on the theme, 3. You do a little Bible teaching on the theme. Then break into small groups to share highs and lows, highlight the key scripture in their bibles, talk about how the scripture relates to their highs and lows, pray for one another's highs and lows, and bless one another. Then come back for a mellow closing where they lie on the floor with soft music and candles for a poetic prayer journey. Then break out the bread and wine (hey, you're a lutheran), then end with another big circle locking arms and praying the Lord's Prayer and benediction. Then have everyone bless and hug at least 6 other people before they walk out the door.
As I said above, get rid of "class." It has little meaning. Create a warm, learning, relevant, personal (ie small groups doing highs and lows) WORSHIP community that goes out in servanthood and fellowship the other two times a month and they'll not only want to be there, they'll bring their friends. You'll be known as the church with no class.
And you'll absolutely love it.